this remindes me of a fact that kids smile over 1000 times in a day however adults don't even smile 50 times a day!!(read it somewhere) . . think abt it... . . its all abt how is ur attitude towards life(how casual u r). . Although their r 100's of reasons why u can smile or become angry. . .
@ Aqui : The choice is yours.. either you be dependent on one person.. or gather ur smiles from where-ever you can...
@ Ankur : valid point.. there is so much going on in our minds.. that we with time.. forget how to smile... at things small or big... we tend to be cautious of how loud we are when we laugh... we can get irritated easily.. ye to achci baat nai hai
I think it depends on who you're with and what situation you are in. For example, because I haven't seen my family for months and months, when I am with them, I find it easier to smile than to get angry, because those things don't matter.
Perhaps only you (in the end) can make you smile. You alone decides whether you will smile at something or not. You might decide that you will allow yourself to smile at many things, or instead you can see the world as a desolate place and never smile at anything.
Smiles can be so deceptive!!! Definitely, there is a growing trend in the world where people cover up their true feelings - maybe because we are so confused or so many bad things are happening in the world!!!
@ Burf : mere bhai... sab natak karte hain.. ander se kitne bhi gusse mein ho.. upar se ek fake smile karna zaroori hai... corporate world mein to its an art that you have to have to survive !!!
@ deepak : I know man... but the actual problem happens when this fake of ours meets the good friends.. and a distance is created when we are not true to ppl we care for.. or the other way round !!!
dunno what i have written.. dunno if it makes any sense or not :P
why do u have to fake it when u meet old friends.....it shud come naturally...atleast it comes to me to all my good old friends..... maybe we r not that much regular in touch any more but still at one time our lives were joined together and we had good times....so just thinking abt those times shud bring a smile on ur face...... if u have to fake it then i dont think u were good friends at all...u were just friends for the sake of being in same class, same school, same college or watever.......
@ Deepak : : I have seen so many ppl behaving differently with time Deepak... even the closest of friends who change and fake... anyway.. what you have said is very valid.. probably it was just a arrangement to be friends for the heck of it... but then.. life teaches you in so many different ways !!! this is just another one of them i guess :)
@ Aqui : I do not agree... saying that there is just one person who can make you actually smile is more of a fairy tale...
ReplyDeleteppl who make you smile can also make you angry... and vice versa....
do not ever depend on only ONE person for happiness... you might just end up getting badly disappointed !!!
this remindes me of a fact that kids smile over 1000 times in a day however adults don't even smile 50 times a day!!(read it somewhere)
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think abt it...
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its all abt how is ur attitude towards life(how casual u r).
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Although their r 100's of reasons why u can smile or become angry.
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and ya, i also don agree that only one person can make u smile.
ReplyDelete@ Aqui : The choice is yours.. either you be dependent on one person.. or gather ur smiles from where-ever you can...
ReplyDelete@ Ankur : valid point.. there is so much going on in our minds.. that we with time.. forget how to smile... at things small or big... we tend to be cautious of how loud we are when we laugh... we can get irritated easily.. ye to achci baat nai hai
I think it depends on who you're with and what situation you are in. For example, because I haven't seen my family for months and months, when I am with them, I find it easier to smile than to get angry, because those things don't matter.
ReplyDeletePerhaps only you (in the end) can make you smile. You alone decides whether you will smile at something or not. You might decide that you will allow yourself to smile at many things, or instead you can see the world as a desolate place and never smile at anything.
Smiles can be so deceptive!!! Definitely, there is a growing trend in the world where people cover up their true feelings - maybe because we are so confused or so many bad things are happening in the world!!!
By the way, hello - I like your blog. =)
Now that is a very very valid point... does not leave me with anything to say !!!
ReplyDeleteoh.. and by the way Thank you :)
i do them together...ab yeh mat puchna kaise...red
ReplyDelete@ Red : I think i do not need to ask... actually a lot of us do that a lot... and i am to doing it everyday these days in office :) :/
ReplyDeletenot its not
ReplyDeletebut if u can do it ur a better person
@ Burf : mere bhai... sab natak karte hain.. ander se kitne bhi gusse mein ho.. upar se ek fake smile karna zaroori hai... corporate world mein to its an art that you have to have to survive !!!
ReplyDeleteyeah very well said prashant....i have mastered it after living in chennai for 15 months :)
ReplyDelete@ deepak : I know man... but the actual problem happens when this fake of ours meets the good friends.. and a distance is created when we are not true to ppl we care for.. or the other way round !!!
ReplyDeletedunno what i have written.. dunno if it makes any sense or not :P
@ Aqui : You make sense too.. ;)
ReplyDeletei meant, u r correct, it is very hard to smile... (i meant - 'no its not easy')
ReplyDeleteand if u can still smile (genuinely) in those hard times, it proves u a better person
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why do u have to fake it when u meet old friends.....it shud come naturally...atleast it comes to me to all my good old friends.....
ReplyDeletemaybe we r not that much regular in touch any more but still at one time our lives were joined together and we had good times....so just thinking abt those times shud bring a smile on ur face......
if u have to fake it then i dont think u were good friends at all...u were just friends for the sake of being in same class, same school, same college or watever.......
@ burf : Sahi bola...
ReplyDelete@ Deepak : : I have seen so many ppl behaving differently with time Deepak... even the closest of friends who change and fake... anyway.. what you have said is very valid.. probably it was just a arrangement to be friends for the heck of it... but then.. life teaches you in so many different ways !!! this is just another one of them i guess :)