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14/11/05

jUst LiKe ThAt !!!

Life is strange..

and stranger is the way you change you look at it from every milestone that you reach in your life...

when you are 21 you feel that ppl who are 27 boring.. and should settle down and not interfere or give GYAN on what you should be doing and what you should not.. you wonder why most of them are so serious.. when its time to play...

and when you are 27 you find it hard to understand why someone who is 21 has to talk all the time.. why can't you just think and ponder over what you want to do in your life for a moment... why can't you have your own goals in life clear....

i think we forget that we were also 21 sometime back...

i know when i was still in college, i was of the most stupid ppl around.. i did not have a clue about the industry.. what i wanted to do in my life.. except that i wanted a job in the software field... and do what? no, i did not know that either... strange !!! and today i wonder why these young adults cannot act more responsibly and learn from what ppl a li'il older have been through...

anyway.. i have grown with time.. and i am sure most of them would also live and learn to be where they should be with age... but then.. you do not have any control on growing old.. but definitely growing up is a something that happens because of yourself....

another thought that has been coming to my mind for the last few days...

what is attractive?
yes i am talking about myself and what i feel attractive in the opposite sex...

looks.. yes... but offlate i have seen myself getting attracted towards the nicer looking dames... but not really being keen to talk to them...

but then girls who i feel can talk.. and i can get into conversations with, i find that they are far more attractive then any beauty queen !!! the intelligence that some of them have gives then far more charm then a hourglass figure would !!!

18 comments:

  1. @ burf....
    wait... i will get the fotos and have a post with the snaps only !!!

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  2. well i thot its otherwise now....kids are more focussed on what they wanna do and they know their goals....atleast i have seen its happening....in our time it used to few careers only, now they have diff streams to think of...but yeah they do know what they want to....

    as for other...beauty v/s brains....the eternal Q ....

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  3. can't comment on this situation...haven't experienced either. but i kinda agree with what Deepak has to say here.

    good looks...one gets bored of them ultimately.but there's always something more in an intelligent mind.

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  4. but definitely growing up is a something that happens because of yourself....

    REALLY?
    damn...i am still trying, though.

    getting attracted......aarrggghhh.. one gets attracted to soooooo many of them daily....but yes u r right only sme r the sorts you'd want to...and eventually if u do...u end up thinking....damn..anyways...next time may be an interesting person would seem attractive!!


    you think a lot man! but its all for growing up and all i think ;)

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  5. you went to corbett.......... man!

    am sooooooo waiting to see the pics dude!

    you seem to have quite a 'travelling' life man! LUCKY!

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  6. Thougth provoking!!! I mean the first part of the post!

    This is the sad part I would say...even I was like I want to go to a good engineering college...if some one asked me why the only answer was I want a good job as a engineer. And what does an engineer do? No idea!!! That was way back in class 8th or 9th. Now the sad part is the job mentality...Job is not bad but the mentality of job is be all and end all of everything is bad. Arre mein bhavnao mein beh gaya..mafi bhai

    And I would agree with Deepak about the beauty vs brains discussion! But personally I would rate smartness way over beauty...

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  7. @b
    u changed the equation dude....
    smartness takes care of both.....isnt it :)

    anyway i guess thats wat an intelligent soul wud look for....but i dont agree when someone says they just look for brains....comeon looks are also imp but not that imp too....

    btw prashie...r u confused cuz u have started the process of meeting gals for marriage :D

    just a thot, u know how i am :) hehehe

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  8. @ deeps...
    kids are more focussed.. and there is whole lot of them who do not have a clue as well...
    you might be talking to the few who know what they are heading towards... i know a hell lot of them who are not yet awake !!!

    beauty vs. brains... yea...

    @ bastm...
    you will agree probably coz you are part of the smaller group who know what they want.. just like i cannot say that India uses broadband... i cannot say that the kids these days are mature !!! not to say they are not.. there are whole lot who are very very mature.. but then i cannot be.. and would not reach a conclusion just because a small percentage has grown up !!!

    intelligent mind.. yes...

    @ rohit...
    keep trying...

    :D

    @ rohit..
    yess.. i went to the corbett.. spent 4 rolls in two days.. will get the fotos on wednesday evening !!!

    i used to say that i was a travel freak.. i am just trying to live upto my words...

    @ b...
    hmm

    @ deeps...
    yes... who says looks are not important they are lying... i am not confused deepak.. i am just thinking.. coz i am changing !!! with time yes... and i am sure that i like intelligent women more then beautiful women...
    looks can be attractive but they might keep you for long... but i guess, brains can keep you for a long long time !!!

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  9. oh yes indeed brains can keep u for looooooooong time and thats wat matters in long term.....so do look for a mix of both...baki thoda idhar udhar to life main chalta hai......

    as for other thing, i am sure u wud have seen the kids without any focus....but wat i wanna say that is that % is decreasing over the yrs.......at our time it was much bigger.......

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  10. @Deepak
    I didnot realise I changed the equation.

    @All
    Looks are important yes..because that is the first thing you notice in anybody! But remember if you can fall for those looks you can fall out too!!! Only intellegence (or rather smartness) can keep the relationship alive...

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  11. yes sir!!

    waiting for the pics... never seen the place so all the more enthu to see them..

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  12. @ deeps..
    thats what... intellect keeps ppl together i guess... not love or whatever shit...

    i hope the %age keeps increasing with time and the youth here is more aware of what they need to do in life... there is a lot that does not even know what is happening in the world and i am concerned about them...

    @ b...
    true...

    @ rohit..
    the jungle had something about it which words can never describe... wednesday night is when i get the pics.. you will see them on thursday evening i guess on flickr !!!

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  13. Arre tum mere comments ke liye sirf ek work kyun likhte ho??? Anyways!

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  14. @ b...
    i did not notice man !!! point taken ... and would take care of it :P

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  15. jiyada mat socho.nahi umar nikal jaayegi.bas jo acha lagta hai,wohi sahi hai.

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  16. @ red...
    precisely

    @ aqui...
    you got the point :P

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