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18/11/05

i WaS ThiNkiNg !!!!

kitne ajeeb rishte hain yahan pe...
do pal milte hain...
saath saath chalte hain..
jab mod aaye to bach ke nikalte hain...

kitne ajeeb rishte hain yahan pe...


Raina had this song in one of her posts sometime back !!!!

somehow this song makes so much sense... relations indeed are kinda strange... we meet people who are strangers... and become the best of friends... and then we have ppl who used be our closest pals.. and distances come in between from God knows where...

are these things controllable... yes to an extent... there is a lot that i can do to keep my pals with me.... oh.. let me correct myself... i can do a lot to keep myself close to my pals...

but then what happens when they do not make an effort...

anyway.. that is a rotten topic and i really am not in a mood to write more about that...

what i really wanted to write today.. was about new relationships that bring magic to your life... new people.. new smiles... new days... new evenings... :) does it look like i am in love... hehehe.. it might feel that way.. but i am not...

i am outside love & relationships....and am trying to look at it from a outside world !!! Sunil got married yesterday, and we had a looong talk day before about how he was feeling about everything.. he was very very relaxed... and was very very happy too... and then he had so many reasons to be happy... and it felt really good to see someone who once used to study with me start another life !!!! and also be a part of one more life... ankita his wife (now) is a very lucky girl... Sunil is a mature guy.. and he understands how difficult it is for some girl to leave her house and start staying with ppl who are unknown !!!! and that too with a feeling that she would be judged almost with everything that she does... everything that she is going to do.. the minutest of the things would create an impression... how she walks in the house.. how she talks on the phone.. how is greets her new parents... everything... i think its very very tough !!!! just too tough for a human to think about !!! and so many of them go through it and a good percentage of it comes out of it happy !!!! God bless them !!!!

There is such a huge amount of responsibility that sunil and his wife are going to share now... a life that starts new !!! a life that needs them to be together come whatever may.. a life that promises to bring happiness... and with a condition... that they give each other space to breath... that they let each other speak their heart out... that they respect each other and the people they are and were associated with.. family friends relatives and wat not !!!!

at the end of the day they have to make sure that the other person looks forward to even one minute of time spent together !!! God bless you Sunil God bless Ankita !!! i hope they and all the couples in this world stay happy !!!!

and the good/bad girls who are still single.. and ready to mingle (please do NOT read "get married" ) send a message to me ;)

15 comments:

  1. oops...i know you'd be very disappointed to see a guy's message here...that too, the very first one!!

    so what r the new smiles for then ;)

    i like the way you write dude.. its kinda carefree but at the same time u seem to make a point.. makes me keep coming back to read on your blog!!

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  2. This post of yours reminds me of the saying...

    Marriage is not finding the right person..its being the right person!!!

    And with my sister tying the knot tomorrow I am so excited for her (Damn I cant be with her...its so sad)

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  3. @ rohit...
    hai re meri kismat ;)

    thanks for the compliment man !!!

    @b...
    correct.. its really about being the right person.. and that is what is TUFF

    ya. you told about ur sister's marriage !!! God Bless her !!! hope you will have some pics to share in the next few days

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  4. Om:My wishes to the couple too...

    its true ..the way people come into our lives is something i still havent yet figured out......

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  5. Excellent post..........cant comment more.

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  6. @burf
    i do not agree with you... i think the good girls are all taken.. and the bad ones do not find me good enough ;)

    @ demi
    yea.. i will pass on the message...
    why have you not figured out how ppl come into your life.. i am not talking about a relationship actually.. just someone meeting you.. and you feeling good about it.. and so on...

    @ aqui...
    Thanks...

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  7. hi,
    the first point in one of the happiness poster kind of thing was:
    get married to the right person.it will solve 90% of your problems.
    true isn't it??
    (one can also read this as 90% problems are caused by the spouses ;) )
    seriously,marriage is huge and requires a hell lot.so much so that sometimes i think i will not marry.
    n ya...new relationships can be so beautiful(made a new friend three months back)..n so can be the old ones(old,gold)...depends so much on the people in it.
    i wish your friends happiness too.

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  8. bhai kafi der so soch rahe ho aap.....next post man!!

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  9. "but then what happens when they do not make an effort..."
    they maybe saying that for u...its the simplest thing to say..

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  10. @ neha..
    i think more then getting married to the right person.. being the right person is important...

    about marriage.. tell me about it.. i share the same opinion... and about new relationships.. yes.. there is a fun and charm to them...

    God bless !!!


    @ b...
    soch nai raha yaar.. bahut biziee hoon aajkal...

    @ anony...
    true... it is actually the simplest thing to say...

    you did not try to make an effort... i wanted to keep talking you did not have any time... i wrote emails you did not reply... i could not get any time.. i was too busy... all of these sentences come to mind, when it comes to relationships that suffer with time.. and i probably am equally responsible for them dying out.. coz i somewhere lost it.. may be i should have displayed some more patience...

    anyway... Good luck.. God bless

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  11. Oh that was a sad joke which I think you missed!! The post is titled I WAS THINKING...that is why that comment!!!

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  12. hiiii!!

    no BLOG SINCE LONG!!

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  13. hi prashant, where have you been. mere blog pe bhi nahi dikhe, waise I have been busy with something too. do come and comment whenever you have time. i have something about relationships on my blog too.

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