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14/03/06

ThOuGhT DuMp....

rains...

you have to drive with your windows rolled up...

and then there are traffic jams...

and then !!!!

Some BASTARDS who would still drive with high beams on... not even noticing that the water drops on the glasses of the other cars explode that light and make the other driver as good as blind.... and then they must be wondering why the hell are there so many accidents... why ppl cannot drive carefully.... you ASS, if you could drive with your bloddy headlights in low beam... atleast half the drivers who cross you are 50% safe... attleast its only their fault that would lead to an accident.. and not your too bright show you all headlights !!! aargh..


oh.. and then there are some simpletons... or i would choose to call them idiots... who think that mud flaps are only to make your car look good.. and when one of these drops for some reason.. the best you can do is remove the other one too.. you buggers.. when u are driving on a wet road... your rear tyres work like canons and throw dirty water from the road to the motorists behind you as missiles... rain water does not screw up the windscreens.. its the small dirty water drops that screws up the visibility !!!

and now something strange...

in my lifetime, i do not remember a choti holi when it rained in delhi/ncr

my dad does not remember a holi when it rained in Delhi the day before holi..

something has happened here on this earth.. and i am not too confortable about it...

and now something happy...

i was struggling to hear some good rock when i was coming back home on monday.. and today my CD changer has 3 good rock CDs... which means i have a song for every mood now in the 10 cds i can plug and play... and there is nothing for a sorrow mood... sorry sorrow.. you are not allowed in my car !!!

the way water drops move up the windscreen when the car moves ahead is kinda very sweet to watch... it leaves a wonderful pattern behind as well...

and i feel that i can make ppl laugh when they are in a real bad mood... have a few confirmations from a few situations !!!

and now something that is a part of life..yours mine.. everyones maybe...

there is this good guy... and there is this good girl...

the good girl likes the good guy... and the good guy likes the good girl...

and then there is this bad guy.. who is a good friend of the good guy...

and this good girl, even though says that she loves the good guy... is attracted towards the bad guy...

who obviously does not mind the attention because he is a bad guy.. and is certainly looking forward to a nice time with the good girl...

the good guy confronts the good girl.. and tells her that he loves her... she likes him too.. but she feels that the relationship is too mushy.. and breaks up with him..

and who beneifts out of it... the bad guy.. who enjoys the company of this good girl... while the good guy is all alone...

phew...
the question is... do girls really get attracted to bad guys? ok... decent looking bad guys? or is this something about power/attitude/control that attracts them... and why is that usually not so apparent with good guys.. why do bad guys look like being in control most of the time... atleast to the outer world?

ugh !!! what am i writing... good night !!!


oh.. and a very very Happy and Colourful holi everyone... enjoy take care !!!

13 comments:

  1. "the question is... do girls really get attracted to bad guys?"

    Of course. Just the way the reverse happens as well. Perhaps the reasons vary.

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  2. no.....i dont think so....today gals are more attracted to guys who r logically more suitable to them.....

    well those who r decent looking but well educated, earning loads of money and can provide secure life to them......even if they are themselves in a good position....

    ps: i am only talking abt the a specific strata of gals who r doing well in their careers...

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  3. @ woodsmoke...

    true... i remember myself saying at times... i really like bad girls... just that the bad girls do not find me good enough !!!

    @ deepak...
    guru... you are talking about a time when a gal probably is thinking of settling down.. and for obvious reasons at that time, however bad/good the guy may be a future with him is thought about before anything else...

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  4. no prashie.....that was the case earlier....i see gals looking for a pragmatic decision even when going for a rships....

    in college days its diff ofcourse but we r not college kids any more...right ?

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  5. I'd not want to express myself on the good girl/bad guy thing. Thats just because I haven't come across this situation and consider myself too unexperienced when it comes to relationships. :D
    Good luck good guy. Cheer up!


    Oye, which rock discs do you have in your car?

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  6. @ deeps..

    i would love to agree to you.. and i am not also trying to reach a conclusion with this post or your comments...

    all i am saying is that i have seen girls getting attracted to guys who are otherwise labelled as bad... not that i do not see girls being with the nice guys too...

    if you are looking for a long term relationship, then obviously you are going to think about a lot of things.. and evaluate more.. but on the face value of it.. there are times when certain qualities of good guys are not as attractive... for that matter... even guys.. when not looking for a long term relationship are not going to really run after the good girls as well...

    @ rohit...
    abe.. what makes you think i am sad... i am ultra happy with things :) rock discs.. just the usual compilations from the likes of pink floyd, bon jovi, aerosmith, bee gees, queen, and whatever i like.. never been a die hard band fan.. anything that i can listen to i can like it...

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  7. Cool. I have always hated beegees. Pink Floyd's the one of the ultimate bands. :D

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  8. Nice story ..

    i don think girls like GOODY GOODY boy ..
    now days Generally Girls prefer a HUMAN instead of Hero ..:)

    and i agree that girls attarcted to guys who r more suitable ..but exception are always there...
    cos u cant separate all guys n all girls in two category Good n Bad ...kuch Grey bhi hota hain ..:)

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  9. your irritation on the road...clearly visible here. u're good at expressing stuff! :D

    i somehoe knew that it will be sunny today. just a gut feeling but i was confident that it won't rain. and it didn't!!!

    the story...i don't know, i've never seen something like this arnd me.
    as far as girls going for bad guys, it's a very subjective thing. i, personally would not go for any guy if he's not a good guy. but u know, there are a lot of girls out there who wud not want a good guy coz apparently they're not that much fun. opinions!!

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  10. @ rohit...
    i am sure beegees have a very dedicated audience too... and i am sure i love a few songs of them too... as i said.. me no dedicated band listener..

    # chitra...
    story to kuch khaas nice nai hai.. just that i have seen this happening myself and obviously know of a lot of instances where this happened..

    and obviously... too goodie guys are usually bores as well !! its kinda natural to like someone bad too...

    girls prefer humans... hmm... nice...
    suitable for what chitra... everyone would have a different definition of suitable...

    if u are looking for a one night stand you obviously are not looking for someone who goes home early to parents... or would you?
    if you are looking for a long term relationshiops who are not looking for someone who is more keen to have a no strings attached affairs...

    so its kinda a personal choice which obviously changes over a period of time... you like something today.. and something else tmrw...

    @ bastm...
    yes.. irritation on the road... i can kill a few hundreds if allowed.. or atleast shoot at their headlamps...

    i am not sure if you not having seen what i wrote is good or bad.. coz i for sure know that on the face value a few bad things are more enjoyable and attractive... and fun too...

    good guys might be too mushy and possesive at times.. and ditto for good girls too... and uh... urgh.. to that...

    opinions...

    and its fun to see how they change when we talk about the time period associated with a relationship... the pre-requisite changes !!!

    life !!!

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  11. sigh......... u go on a leave and there is too much missed out on your blog
    interesting topic...... wud just like to add another drop in this sea of comments....... opposite attracts..... you wud not necessarily get attracted to someone who possesses the same qualities as you have......... every body has a mean streak in them... having the balls to bring out that side of yours gutsy affair...... which cud be a major attraction (with exceptions ofcourse)

    Sorry if i offended someone.......

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  12. @ aqui...
    hmm...
    interesting... thought... how come i missed out on that one...

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  13. thanks........... the appreciation is much appreciated.....

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