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06/03/06

CoNvOzzzz.... & MoRe...

have not written about whats been happening for a while now...

dunno why...

was just too tired to write i guess...

anyway...

i think the last weekend was something i really would like to write about.. not because it had something special associated with it.. but because i would like to write.. and not be my usual lazy self...

saturday... spent in searching for a lense for my camera... and ending up in more confusion because of the variation in price with multiple dealers... actually i think that happened for good.. because the camera that i am going to buy might just be different then wat i was thinking... so not reaching any conclusion as of now.. i am going to spend some more time in researching to reach a mature decision...

the other highlight of the day was...
meeting Rohit and Richa.. and Richa... kinda excited on seeing Rohit for the first time.. and screaming.. "he is sooo cute"... saturday also saw her being in love with some vocalist of her college band... its so easy to be in love i think... everyone should be in love.. with a lot of people...

and saturday also saw me and tushar thinking about the age difference we had with rohit and richa... who suddenly looked kids for some reason... and we thought about us reaching a certain level of maturity with age.. which they will too... in due course of time...

and saturday also saw us travelling in the public transport of delhi... not really willing to keep standing... waiting on the bus stand for an empty bus and so on.. with the ending with a refreshing litchi ice tea @ my favorite tea shop... this is where an interesting conversation started.. and it was continued on sunday too...

some of the words and sentences that i remember of the conversation i had in the last two days with tushar...

kids, age, maturity, i cannot read, i need to look for the right book to read to start with, my willingness towards conversations then reading books, the marriage proposals reaching my home... the conversations at home about them... my total 100% cluelessness about how to take them anywhere... my total confusion about how someone can figure out if they really want to spend rather can spend the REST OF THEIR LIVES TOGETHER... one of my uncles talking to my mom about a girl.. and stressing the fact that she has done her education in english medium... me thinking and realising that somewhere around my city itself... studying in english medium makes you better then others... me and tushar talking about how the priorities change when it comes to getting married...how we did not talk about if the gurl had any affairs in the past.. but we only talking about how she could mix up with the existing set of friends one has... and how she would be able to cope up with different kinds of societies the guy is a part of.. his family, his friends, and his office... how being beautiful is not the biggest reason why i would marry someone... and in between... oogling at the hotties around in sector-18... and not really talking about marriage and girls and only about how hott the girls looked in what they were wearing.. and how they would look with lesser clothes.. and talking about how we would like to record all our conversations and then post them on the blogs... and that we would make a questionaire for women which they could and would fill up and give to the men.. and how we would like to do this as a business... and so on and so forth...

i am sure i have not been able to write even 30% of what me and tushar talked about.. but then the crux of the matter is... that life is totally not solved and confusing when it comes to getting married...

so enjoy folks while i continue to write about the state of mind i would be in on every proposal that comes to my place...

and how life takes different turns while the days pass by....

and also we talked about why i could not get into a relationship right now.. because if i am having an affair.. big or small... i would loose the freedom of looking for a life partner for me.. unless the girl also in the state of mind which allows her to let me do this.. which is kinda a toughie...

and also.. how the girls also were keen on making out with their boyfriends... but they still waiting for a good while before they let their guy touch them... and tushar wondering about why that permit cannot be given in 6 hours instead of 6 months or 6 weeks.. or whatever...

am i forgetting something...

i guess i am..

and the more i try to think about what it is.. the more blank my mind is feeling right now...

so good night... have fun.. be safe...

19 comments:

  1. permit to the lorry to roll over or what? ;)

    lol :D

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  2. # burf..

    precisely...
    permit to roll over ;)

    :D

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  3. Interesting trailer of wats cooking........ wish to comment abt a lot many things but i guess i shud hold myself on it and let you learn thru your expereinces in life rather than thru unsolicited advises and comments.......... but take care and enjoy in the event.... everyone passes thru this phase of life

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  4. So when is the questionnaire coming through?

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  5. kafi intellectual batein ho rahi hai .... :D

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  6. # aqui...
    i think you should comment on whatever you'd like to.. i might not necessarily take the advice.. and still learn with my own exp. but your experiences would really help too...

    # woodsmoke...
    no idea.. might take a rafting trip to come out with one... next weekend... may be..

    # deeps...
    yess sir ;)

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  7. too many topics to comments on in this post........ so some other time more over i dont want to bore u....

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  8. @ aqui...
    arre...
    say it one by one...

    i insist :)

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  9. A)its easy to be in love .......... but toughest to come out of it....... though the suggestion was good to be in love with a whole lot of ppl
    B)if you remember we once had a disscussion on age being the barometer for maturity (not always though) btw i can relate to this feeling where u feel more matured (that feeling sometimes even upholds me from commenting on your posts :)))..... but more than age i feel its experience which makes you grow and counts.......
    C) marriage is a different ball game altogether...... its a gamble at times....... never say no to anything.......no matter how hard you try when its suppose to happn it will happn cause it was destined to and you wud never be100% sure of the fact that u want to spend your life with this person till you actually get married and repent......:)))))))))
    D)like your honesty when it comes to having a relationship/affair..... but then why wud you have an affair if you are not looking for someone to marry (doesnt work out thats a diff ball game altogether but one enters into a relationship thinking he cud be a prospective one)
    E) too much of emotional depedency involved when it comes to a physical relationship no wonder gals dont give in so easily also we are conditioned at times to be that way...... but then it depends on person to person and the society is changing.......... you will also find gals who are ready to go all the way in 6 hours and want no strings attached....... tell tushar to look around

    too long a comment but u asked for it:)))))))

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  10. @ aqui...

    thank you so much for the comments...

    i agree and disagree with a few things.... like i have mentioned in the post... but its good to know what you feel about things i have written...

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  11. DUDE!
    Firstly. I'd have loved to listen to two 'mature' guys talk! and when its guys, err. WOuld have been fun!

    Hotties in 18? You must be kidding. It has been ages we spotted any.
    Anyways.

    It wasn't as if Richa & I are kids. I don't know about her, but you know all that happened a night before that, I just wanted to kick hard and laugh at anything. I was looking for reasons to smile. And you guys managed quite a lot for me. :)

    I think it's just that at that point of time, you guys started to miss having fun the way we did, how we talked about the little things we do in college, etc. [Not that you've stopped checking-out girls! Which you might not, ever, Err.]
    :P

    Dude, I loved this post. It's so much like what I do with my friends over beer!

    Rest is all 'mature' talk I guess.. shaadi and all.. I remember my sister talking her heart out to me [only at times] when relatives used to come home with proposals.. and she stressed on the fact that she wanted to continue working.. it's weird for you guys yo handle all this at one time.. hope you balance it out!

    Enjoy yourself man! Have fun being single.
    Don't forget Richa & I are going to dance a LOT the day you're getting married. :D

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  12. i like the topic :)

    coz somehow i m also going to thru this kinda thing ..

    i cant say much abt wat u think but marriage is really a serious thing .

    somehow ppl think that when u get married u need to change themself but i m not agree wid this thing coz marriage means a companianship , its not like bounding someone ..
    why cant a girl roam arnd after being married ..i think its more like a mind set ..nthing is written marriage rule book :)

    pata nahin kya likha manie ..but this is never ending topic ..:)

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  13. @ rohit...
    we sound really mature when we talk.. but then somone who is not over level would be easily able to turn us down as loud not too sure guys... unki galti nai hai.. we usually talk a level higher then most of the ppl around... hehehe...

    yes 18... hotties.. drooling hott...

    c'mon you are kids.. i have a younger brother who is older then you and he is my kid brother.. not to offend any maturing tht you obviously have acquired in all the years... and good you were feeling batter...

    i have never discussed things over beer... most of the time between me and burf its either the ice tea @ tea shop.. or the gurls around ;)

    mature talk nai... we laughed.. and were angry.. and surprised.. and also amused while we were talking about shaadi and all... its tough man.. its tough...

    and u and richa kya.. i am going to dance khoob saara too.. to the extent that i would prepare a list of songs i want the bloddy dj to play :P

    @ chitra...
    marriage.. too serious to be taken seriously i guess...

    i am chilling out.. and getting myself embarrased while having funn in the entire episode..
    and companionship and all.. freedom and all... roam around and all.. mind set yes...

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  14. ok so chill out more :)

    i was just too much into ur post ..

    anyways :)

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  15. Grr.. WE'RE NOT KIDS.

    Where's this iced tea place man?

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  16. # chitra...
    totally !!!

    too much into the post yes... understandable... we were too much into the conversation as well.. when it happened...

    # rohit...
    relatively speaking you are bro...
    And the Tea-Shop is in sector-37, near the telephone exchange...

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  17. permit...???6 hrs..?lol....ur friend Tushar is funny...

    and yes...it's nice being in love with a no of ppl at the samwe time...

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  18. hehee.. and you're elder bro. hmm.

    ab main noida se itna familiar bhi nahi hun ki mujhe pata ho tel exchange. all i know is sector 56! and sec 18..

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  19. # alice...
    yupp.. that dude is funn....

    tell me about it.. i am in love with a lot of things.. people.. err... not really..

    @ rohit...
    you had a doubt?
    come over to noida nd i will show you around..

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