easier said than done...... humans at the end of the day afterall..... though an effort itself into the direction would make a hell lot of a difference.....
# kanu... correct... giving in is also a good idea :)
not really sure how to answer your question dear... sometime we can talk about it... i have given up and i have been given up on as well.. so might be able to talk about both sides of the coin..
well ....the moment u bring someone close to u, u will always have expectations.......thats the human tendency and u cant avoid it.....no one is that much practical..........and when those expectations are not met (over a period of time) then u do give up........
what u wish is something thats remote to impossible .........
i never said about avoiding any expectations deepak... i only am talking about giving up on those expectations instead of giving up on the person... may be i need to write in detail here for you...
when you do not get what you want, that probably is because either the expectations were not realistic or because what you thought you will get was not what the other person will give...
is getting away from the person a solution? maybe yes... but is giving up on the expectation and accepting the other person also a solution? may yes for this one too...
depends on an individual on what (s)he chooses to pick...
and what i wish is something that i think is doable... i might not be doing it today, but one day... and i know that for sure...
easier said than done...... humans at the end of the day afterall.....
ReplyDeletethough an effort itself into the direction would make a hell lot of a difference.....
@ anony...
ReplyDeletei know, much easier said then done... i write this and then i do exactly the opposite... its easy...
following it is difficult... am trying... you do that too..
Sometimes it would be nice if one could actually give up!!!
ReplyDeleteOn anything....people do give up so soon...yet there are few who are cursed...few who can not give up....what about them?
hmm...
ReplyDeletegood point :)
you gotcha!
ReplyDelete# ankur...
ReplyDeletehmm...
thanks..
# kanu...
correct... giving in is also a good idea :)
not really sure how to answer your question dear... sometime we can talk about it... i have given up and i have been given up on as well.. so might be able to talk about both sides of the coin..
# mayuri..
ji..
# abhi..
:)
# soo..
thanks...
well ....the moment u bring someone close to u, u will always have expectations.......thats the human tendency and u cant avoid it.....no one is that much practical..........and when those expectations are not met (over a period of time) then u do give up........
ReplyDeletewhat u wish is something thats remote to impossible .........
i never said about avoiding any expectations deepak... i only am talking about giving up on those expectations instead of giving up on the person... may be i need to write in detail here for you...
ReplyDeletewhen you do not get what you want, that probably is because either the expectations were not realistic or because what you thought you will get was not what the other person will give...
is getting away from the person a solution? maybe yes... but is giving up on the expectation and accepting the other person also a solution? may yes for this one too...
depends on an individual on what (s)he chooses to pick...
and what i wish is something that i think is doable... i might not be doing it today, but one day... and i know that for sure...
dost yahi gita ka gyaan hai,,,karam karo, fal ki iccha mat karo, wo bhagwaan pe chod do,,,expectations bhagwaan se rakho and aadmi se nahin,,,
ReplyDelete# ankur...
ReplyDeletesahi bhai sahi....