I am wondering how easy is it for someone to
Set an expectation
Forget all about it at his/her own convenience
Get Angry when someone reminds him/her of it
Making sure that the other person feels like (s)he has done a mistake by speaking his/her mind
Coming back and almost laughing at him/her, while justifying what was done with proper and valid artifacts
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I don't call a lot of people friends... I don't like to... because I know I cannot do justice to that term... its an underrated word, for all I know... So I have a few friends, and a lot of people I know, and some are somewhere between the I know and are friends area...
When I call someone a friend, it basically adds a whole lot of responsibility on me to ensure that I intentionally or otherwise don't do things which would hurt them...
Not that I can always prevent myself from doing such things, but I, from my past, know that I would be genuinely sorry for hurting anyone of the people I call friends...
And I do make it a point to make it up to them either by saying sorry and meaning it, or by doing something that would help me make it up to them...
I would not like to first hurt a friend, and then at the next opportunity go back and justify what i did... If I ever did that, I shouldn't have done that... I know it feels bad when first you are hurt and then made fun of...
I am sorry...
Set an expectation
Forget all about it at his/her own convenience
Get Angry when someone reminds him/her of it
Making sure that the other person feels like (s)he has done a mistake by speaking his/her mind
Coming back and almost laughing at him/her, while justifying what was done with proper and valid artifacts
______________________
I don't call a lot of people friends... I don't like to... because I know I cannot do justice to that term... its an underrated word, for all I know... So I have a few friends, and a lot of people I know, and some are somewhere between the I know and are friends area...
When I call someone a friend, it basically adds a whole lot of responsibility on me to ensure that I intentionally or otherwise don't do things which would hurt them...
Not that I can always prevent myself from doing such things, but I, from my past, know that I would be genuinely sorry for hurting anyone of the people I call friends...
And I do make it a point to make it up to them either by saying sorry and meaning it, or by doing something that would help me make it up to them...
I would not like to first hurt a friend, and then at the next opportunity go back and justify what i did... If I ever did that, I shouldn't have done that... I know it feels bad when first you are hurt and then made fun of...
I am sorry...