Nisha was madly in love with Aakash... she even told her parents... and Aakash told his parents too... they were not too happy, but then if the kids wanted it this way they had li'il to say but to agree with them...
But then Nisha and Aakash grew apart.... and the relationship did not work out... today both of them know each other... talk to each other... and are great friends...
So are they idiots to give up on such a great friendship turning into a life long relationship or are they mature people who understand where things lack and accept them this way?
Nandini always wanted John to ask her out... he did... they dated for a few weeks before they slept together... Nandini loved that night... John was happy too... and the sleeping together part repeated a number of times, before one day someone told Nandini that John was married and his wife was pregnant... Nandini was heartbroken... she did not know how to react to this... it took her sometime to accept the fact, and when she did, she also confronted John who agreed that he was married, but he could not let her go either...
No conversations followed for a long while, before one day john asked her out again... and they slept together...
Now, is John a bastard or is Nandini only wants to get laid?
Ansh was in love... and then he was in love again... and then the third time he was in love, he got married.... there was no one at the marriage function... only a few friends... minus a few old ones as well... no parents, no relatives nothing...
And he sends out this email to all his friends after he gets married with the pictures of his marriage...
So how should the friends who thought they were friends think?
He took an immature decision to take away the dream of arranging for a marriage function of their only son from his parents? or did he do the right thing by following his heart?
But then Nisha and Aakash grew apart.... and the relationship did not work out... today both of them know each other... talk to each other... and are great friends...
So are they idiots to give up on such a great friendship turning into a life long relationship or are they mature people who understand where things lack and accept them this way?
Nandini always wanted John to ask her out... he did... they dated for a few weeks before they slept together... Nandini loved that night... John was happy too... and the sleeping together part repeated a number of times, before one day someone told Nandini that John was married and his wife was pregnant... Nandini was heartbroken... she did not know how to react to this... it took her sometime to accept the fact, and when she did, she also confronted John who agreed that he was married, but he could not let her go either...
No conversations followed for a long while, before one day john asked her out again... and they slept together...
Now, is John a bastard or is Nandini only wants to get laid?
Ansh was in love... and then he was in love again... and then the third time he was in love, he got married.... there was no one at the marriage function... only a few friends... minus a few old ones as well... no parents, no relatives nothing...
And he sends out this email to all his friends after he gets married with the pictures of his marriage...
So how should the friends who thought they were friends think?
He took an immature decision to take away the dream of arranging for a marriage function of their only son from his parents? or did he do the right thing by following his heart?
given the chance and time with patience, he wud have been able to give his parents a chance as well as follow his heart.......
ReplyDeletequite immature decision if the time was not given to it......
btw read past 2 post too.....thinking too much.....get out of it....enjoy wats happening and try to get most out of wat is possible at this time :)
ReplyDelete# deepak...
ReplyDeleteI am totally at enjoying bro... and i am getting the max out of life too...
just that my blog is my way of letting things out of my system... and these posts were long due...
hmmm...
ReplyDeletefrankly, i m more keen to know what nisha, aakash, nandini, john and ansh have got to say on their present state of affairs :)
does each of them thinks s/he has taken a mature decision... or not? or s/he been blinded by love, is acting foolish... knows what s/he is doing, but cannot help it??
@ Mayuri...
ReplyDeleteRightly said... they would have a say on the situation for sure...
However, if they would have felt that it was not a mature decision, they would not have taken it...
About your last line, knowing what one is doing and not being able to help it... Isn't that one of the best demonstration of lack of control and immaturish behaviour?
things are very small when looked at from a perspective of huge time-period, like 30 years or 50 years...
ReplyDeletekashmakash....
ReplyDeleteconfusions,
kashish...
compromises.
@ Burf...
ReplyDeleteI feel that these small seemingly insignificant incidents make base for the huge time period you just talked about... 30 years 50 years...
@ Reema..
hey... nice to see you around... right right...